If you really want to know How To Get Your Ex Back, give yourself and the person time to reassess the breakup. Once you’ve given yourselves a good amount of space, ask the person to meet up. Give him a call and maybe invite him to some coffee, but don’t make it sound as though you’re about to drop something heavy as you wouldn’t want to scare him away. Just let it be a light-hearted invitation. And when you’re face-to-face, tell him straight that you want him back. The most important point to make is that you’ve thought things over and hard and found that you still love him and would like a second chance. If he still loves you, he’ll have you back. If not, there’s no point being desperate.